This worksheet will guide you through clear steps and the conversation pointers for your family to begin the values creation process. Download it here.
Keep reading below for our extra bonus pointers on applying the information in this guide.
As you launch into conversation with your family about core values, make sure everyone is clear on the why behind this. Help create a clear picture of the purpose of values and how you hope it can have an impact for your family. When done well, values can be one of the most life-giving tools, as they create both joy and direction for your family’s way of life.
The common pitfall we see with families is they get too focused on finding the exact, right words. The more important aspect for your family is to begin this journey and start applying now. It’s ok if you need to go back and adapt a word later, but it’d be better to start the journey sooner so your family has time to learn and instill these practices.
If you want to build values that are memorable and meaningful for your family, you’ll find the best ones when they connect back to stories or other experiences that have shaped your family. For example, picking “Adventure” because it sounds exciting might not fully resonate with your family. However, let’s say your family has a story of how your grandparents moved from overseas to start a home here and that has always influenced how your family is willing to take risks, that may be a more meaningful value.
Download this guide, and begin your family’s journey to lasting values. If you have young children, you and your spouse may want to work through this on your own and talk through ideas later with your children. (See more best practices on how to introduce and integrate values depending on your family’s current season here.)
Build a Family Blueprint
This is just the start to the journey! If you want to go further in application, our friends at 7th Gen Consulting offer an online workshop where you can receive guided instruction to form your family’s blueprint for success, including values, vision, and mission. Learn more about the workshop here.