Every family operates by a set of values whether or not they realize it. But, what if your family had values that set you apart and reflected the gospel both in and out of the home? What if each generation learned your family values and passed them on to their children so that your family could leave a legacy that echoes into eternity? If you haven’t fully articulated your values, these journal prompts for reflection on what matters most, will help you do just that. Access the family values journal prompts sheet with scriptures to help you determine your values as a family in a way that aligns with your faith.
Values are more than inspirational words written on a post it note on your mirror. Defined, they are building blocks for character and become anchors and guideposts in a shifting world. Without a clear set of values, your family is subject to whatever worldly culture deems right and wrong, or whichever voice is the loudest – peers, social media, entertainment, etc. When your family has a clear set of values, you also have a clear set of boundaries that allow you to remain grounded in truth and not be led by emotion or moved by chaos happening around you.
As we read in Habakkuk 2:2 “Write the vision, make it plain…” the power comes in making the vision so clear that those who would read it would easily run with it and make it happen. The same is true of clearly defined values that each generation can adopt and run with.
Whether you have family values written out or you are looking to establish a set of values for your home, these journal prompts will help you get clarity on what you want your family to carry forward. You will also find scripture references to help you anchor your family values in biblical truth and keep Christ at the center.
As you work through the journal prompts for reflection on values, remember to pause and pray. The more you allow the Lord to help you define what He wants for you and your home, the deeper the connection to the values will be.
To get started with discovering the values that you want for your family, or redefining the values follow these steps:
For some inspiration on different types of family values, you can also check out this resource to get the creativity flowing.
During the journaling process, keep in mind that while priorities shift depending on seasons of life, your core values should remain consistent and set a compass for the direction of your home. It’s ok to take some time in prayerfully finalizing the top values that you want to set for generations. But, what is important in this stage is to clearly define what you want those values to look like as you narrow down your top ones.
As you work through these journal prompts, be intentional about pausing so you can take notice of what the Lord is stirring in you. Allow the reflections to become more than checked off tasks. Ask the Lord to guide you in discovering what values He wants to anchor you and your family in, give you clarity for the present, and to grant you vision for the future. May the values you establish become a testimony of God’s faithfulness in every season and enable you to live on mission for His glory.
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For more in depth teaching on values and how they tie into your family mission and vision, check out our Winning as a Family Mini Course. Let’s get started!